Confession of a Jealous…err… Neglected Mom

The only downside of a weekend is that your child doesn’t even want to acknowledge that you’re around as she wants to make the most of the day by spending all her time with her Papa…. and maybe even complain about how much of a mean & a bickering mom you’ve been through the week 😦 😦

34 thoughts on “Confession of a Jealous…err… Neglected Mom

  1. I know!! I look forward to weekends so I can get some time away from Saumya but when she doesn’t seem to care if I am around I become the cry baby looking for attention!!
    Hmmm…..motherhood, the double
    edges sword!!

    D: I know!! We want the best of both the worlds. Simple. πŸ˜€


  2. Oh! And how I wish I could enjoy some similar ‘me-time’ over the weekends. Come weekend, and one has to pamper not one kid but two!!!!

    D: How sweet! Here, forget about pampering, the father-daughter duo resort to bullying the poor Mom 😦


  3. ha haa πŸ™‚ I shd be prepared for this situation..As I work from home so its like SAHM only πŸ™‚
    Namnam is so cute..Hugs and Muhas to her πŸ™‚

    D: is your Angel, Rash. Good to see you here after so long πŸ™‚


  4. Oh ho… but then its ok to have the PAPA time .. after all they probably get to spend more time with Papa dear more on weekends … now dont be greedy πŸ™‚

    D: Whose side are you on, Bik…grrr! Waise you’re right too!


  5. Ayoda! 😦

    As others mentioned above, make her miss you. πŸ™‚

    D: I have a strong feeling that I may end up missing her even more then and just rush back home even before she can miss me πŸ˜€


  6. Yes I agree with the above comments…she’s too used to having you around…
    One day without you and she’ll go nuts..

    D: I should seriously try putting all your advices into effect πŸ˜€ πŸ˜€

    Besides being a daddy’s daughter chances she runs to him for pampering πŸ™‚ hence such comments..


  7. Poor kid ! If you are this way in the blog world, I can imagine how you would be at home !! My sympathies for the lill one ! πŸ™‚ , I mean , 😦

    D: I knew you’d say that..SHAVAM! 😈


  8. Hmmm… next time I call you, am gonna do a little bit of investigation with Namnu :mrgreen:

    Sigh! I go through the same every evening. Once M is back Samy, rotates around him and I am left all alone with the dirty dishes…sobs!

    psst…pssst I hate those Mummy said this…mummy did that thingy too (the worst is mummy laughed today also looking at the laptop) 😳


    1. Welcome to the ‘Jealous & Neglected Moms club’, Saksh. I’ so glad I’ve company! πŸ˜€

      Hey, what are you doing here BTW..aren’t you supposed to be hosting a party for my Chakkarakuttan??


  9. Yup, even I feel a twinge, when after slogging for the brats the whole day, in the evening Papa dearest makes his appearance the two of them squeal “Daddy” and are off scampering to him. But I have to admit, having them off my hands is a bit of a relief too.

    D: Ha ha ha!


  10. Will I feel the same? Not sure.
    Maybe I’ll relish the space for some time-but surely not for too long

    D: Precisely how I feel! I’m not sure how well I’ll take that me-time πŸ˜€


  11. oooops! i landed on ur blog from neha’s blog and i want to keep following ur blog for tips. mu hubby always says when we hv our child he’ll ensure he’s the favorite parent… πŸ˜‰

    D: LOL!! Welcome here, Anuradha. My husband and I have still not been able to get a clear cut answer from our daughter as to who her favorite parent is. Every time we ask she gets away by saying ‘Both’ πŸ˜€


  12. I have seen happiness elude
    when we have this attitude
    of expecting some gratitude
    and when we don’t get it
    go into a state of lassitude.

    I was kidding. Being the father of 2 teenaged SONS I know the neglect.The saving grace is both mother and father are treated with the same contempt. πŸ™‚

    D: Welcome here, Govind πŸ™‚ Those 5 lines summed up the basic human nature.


  13. Deeps, I wish I could say the same. Mine seems to be superglued to me 😦 I so wish I could just waltz off leaving her with husband without worrying that both of them will greet me with complaints of all sorts πŸ™‚


Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s